Finally we do need someone in our lives…(08-09)

I was sitting in bed this morning shortly after my wifey left for work today and got the thinking about something after her and I had a conversation.  We were talking about a woman always calling behind her husband like she has some insecurity issues and acts like she doesn’t trust him.  My wifey explained that the guy said to my wifey that he hasn’t done anything to make her act this way, but before marriage she was fine and no major issues.  Now since they’ve been married she’s always on his case and following behind him like he is a little boy.  The way she is going she is either going to run him away or he will soon ignore her actions and don’t care what she does or say and wishing she goes away.  Then she will probably want to be all upset and get mad at him when he wants a divorce from her.  Some women want to get all upset when the man wants to leave, but it seems like sometimes the woman doesn’t want to admit to her own faults for the marriage or relationship falling.  Some say all married men cheat, but do you realize that sometimes a woman’s actions can lead the man to cheat? Trust me, I’m not condoning it, but sometimes you have to look at why instead of how could they.

Once the woman leaves a man or he leaves her she usually follows up with the comment “I don’t need a man!” or “I’m an independent black woman”.  Very rare do I hear “I’m a independent white woman.” From them its usually “I don’t need you!”, but in either case all comments are incorrect and you truly do need someone in your life and more than likely someone you don’t care for.  For instance, how can you say you don’t need a man or don’t need someone to help you succeed in anything when you are wearing business clothes or suits that are made by another person.  Unless, you are your own fashion maker you need to go to someone’s store to buy their brand of clothing to make you look successful.  If you get that job that you was looking for then you needed that persons creativity of style to become famous or to become successful.

We all drive cars and trucks pretty much on a daily basis and if not we take some sort of public transportation to get to where we need to go.  Think about it unless, you build your own car or truck from scratch and create your own parts for your custom vehicle you will need the manufactures who have the parts available or even the creation of the vehicle you drive to accomplish your daily goals.  We can’t just sit in our garages or in a parking space in a parking lot and start building a vehicle for ourselves.  If you can do that you still need to follow the federal regulations in accomplishing your project, which was written by lawmen in congress. 

So far it looks like we all need someone in our lives in some sort of shape or fashion.  Women can’t get pregnant unless you have a man who can provide you with the seed to create a baby.  You might not need to be with him per se, but you still need a man to have a baby.  Some women may even say that they don’t need a man for nothing in their lives, but that comment is so ignorant you are surrounded by things that are either created or designed by a man.  The same thing goes for men who need women to create a baby as well, unless a man can do something a woman can do and in that case you may need to get that checked out.  We all need each other because how did you come to life on this earth?  Unless you created yourself you had to be born through your momma’s wound or a c-section, which was used by a man to conceive you. 

Now some may say that I’m thinking way out of the box with this “I don’t need someone” bit, but you have to think this way to actually know how crazy people sound.  I heard that Victoria’s Secret was created by a man at first long time ago.  If that is true then all the women who are wearing this brand name lingerie need a man or needed a man make them look sexy to themselves or to others.  This article isn’t just to bash on women needing a man strictly, but to get people to think about what they say.  I’m using the comments that women say mostly and that I hear alot as an example for my blog entry.  If you really wanted to settle this arguement we all had to be created by GOD who we all need to exist on this earth that he created for us to live on, which we need so we are not living out in space without gravity.

So you see I can continue on and on about this, which can take days to bring to light.  I just wanted to alert everyone reading this that what you say sometimes actually doesn’t make any sense.  We all need someone or somebody in our lives to either make our lives better, wealthier, classier, to get a better education, a better job, or even a better car or house.  So whether you are a man or woman we need each other, which in turn we also help each other which may be my next blog entry on “Helping each other”.  Oh and before I go I want to clarify that we all need a man in our lives every single day.  We say “Heavenly Father” not “Heavenly Mother” and it is GOD who breathes life into you everyday since He can talk you out of existance.