You Eat To Your Size!

062009-01

I was at work the other day doing my job to protect the community and to keep everyone safe.  Most of us officers do not like working evening shift because we have to leave in the middle of our day and for some drive into traffic, which can make for a horrible commute.  For me I love my commute, even though it takes me over 45 minutes to get to work, I love the drive home late at night.  That drive gives me time to clear my mind and when I walk into the house I am basically clear minded and ready for bed.  My wife is usually home in bed, but depends on if I am working the weekends or not.  Since we got our new home I am very happy to come home and don’t have to worry about society rejects hanging outside of our apartment complex or neighbors banging on your floor, their ceiling, to get you to quite down for any creak you make.  I wonder how those neighbors are doing now?

As I was saying I was at work and at this particular time I was eating dinner in the break room where all the other employees that work in the kitchen eat.  We get to eat for free at the university during evening shift so that saves us alot of money.  Well, just near the end of my dinner I was relaxing before I hit back on the streets and a lady, huge in size, came in and sat down at the table.  Now, don’t get me wrong I have nothing against fat people or for some “large people” or “skinny challenged”, but when you stuff your face between three helpings that concerns me.  This employee came in and she was basically stuffing her face with three different helpings while talking on the phone.

I was watching her and was thinking to myself I wonder if she knows why she is the size she is.  Like I said I having nothing against women being that size if you like being that size and I do realize for a few in this country that being fat can be a medical reason.  The issue I have is a person, not just women, stuffing their faces like it’s no tomorrow.  Granted we are not guaranteed tomorrow, but unless you know for sure that you will not make it I don’t see why stuffing your face beyond control is all that good.

Same thing goes for skinny people, but of course it’s the opposite.  Some of the skinny people are so afraid of eating because of becoming fat that they miss all the important nutrients that they need to survive.  Personally, I am not into skinny women, but they need love to from someone out there walking around near them.  The funny thing is that I have seen this large women eat like this before and I wonder about her health.  Then again it’s her heart, body, and emotional health so the only thing I can do is wish her the best of luck in that endeavour.  In general I love women of all sizes and no matter what size you are you deserve to be treated respectfully and with love.

I merely make observations around me and pay close attention to others and I’m pretty sure others make observations about me also.  No one in this world is exempt from being watched so you have no idea who is saying what about you.  On this topic though, most people do eat to their size and still keep going.  There is this thing that is called “GREED” and eating beyond your fullness of your stomach and eating because you see it is not healthy physically and emotionally.  Yes, please eat until you are satisfied, but know your limitations on your body and the more you eat your stomach expands.  My wife and I are eating better and regularly excercising to slim down ourselves so we can be happy for us, not to impress anyone.

Finally a mother and son my wife and I saw in Walmart the other day, when I was off, was bigger than the woman I saw while eating.  The most disturbing site was when she leaned over to rest on the shopping cart and her *rear end* was basically parallel to the floor and nothing but *rear end* in your face about the same width of the shopping cart.  Her son was taller than her, but wasn’t much better and the only thing he had going for him was his height.  I hope people realize when they are the size they are, skinny or fat, that it does affect your emotional and physical health.  I hope she remembers that the next time she wants to stuff her face and spill food on the table.